Unbroken Relationships - Firstly, we have to find an understanding of what it means to be involved in one. So the question is, what does it take to not only enjoy but also spice up relationships?
Enjoying unbroken relationships and spicing them up mean different things to different people. However, this kind of adult relationships generally involve two people who respect each other, can communicate, and have equal rights, opportunities and responsibilities. Most of us would also expect our relationship with our partner to include love, intimacy and sexual expression, commitment, compatibility and companionship which all add up to bring the best out of any relationship.
Getting The Best Out Of It
Have you ever wondered why your relationship never blooms? Yes, there are times when you wonder where the magic/spice in your relationship wandered to. Relationships just like plants need to be taken care of and nourished in order to thrive. If they are ignored, and taken for granted, then it's likely that the magic will be lost and the relationship will wither if not die altogether.
Although it's easy for a relationship to get stuck in a rut, there are some simple thing you can do to ensure that your relationship maintains it's momentum. Try some of the following TIPS to keep the romance alive in your relationship:
1. Talk to each other - just because you love each other doesn't mean that you automatically communicate well or can read your partner's mind or that they read yours. Listen attentively to each other and express your needs. Don't wait for your partner to try to guess what is going on with you.
2. Spend memorable time together - whether in times of sorrow or joy, make your relationship a priority and intentionally make time for each other.
3. Work on feeling good about yourself - this will help the way you feel about your relationship.
4. Everyone is different - accept and value differences in others, including your partner.
5. Be flexible - let your relationship grow and adapt with you as you change.
6. Make plans - set goals for your relationship and plan for your future.
7. Be supportive - try not to judge, criticize or blame each other, no one is perfect.
8. Learn from arguments - accept that arguments will happen and try to resolve them with respect.
9. Be sexually considerate - be affectionate and accept that individuals have different sex drives. Remember that sustaining a healthy and happy sex life requires negotiation.
10. Be attentive - demonstrate your commitment to the relationship.
11. Enjoy yourself - have fun and celebrate your life together.
To maintain close enduring relationships, you must be committed to putting these tips to work thereby spicing up your relationships to another level of romance.
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