The 3 Biggest Reasons Why Women Breakup With Men

A man could spend his entire life trying to figure out the mental workings of women, and never make any progress. We all know they can be difficult and confusing. However, if you understand the 3 biggest reasons why women breakup with men, you can make sure that you avoid them and keep your relationship in good repair.

The first biggest reasons why women breakup with men is simple. Most men are not emotional enough. Women need to feel as though they are special and significant. They want to be missed, and they need to feel loved and valued. If you make sure you go out of your way to let her know that you appreciate all that she does for you and your family, you will be a huge step toward keeping her in your life.

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The second reasons why women breakup with men is that most men expect to much. Far to many men go to work, come home, flop down in front of the television and expect the woman to take care of the house, the food, and the kids. Take the time to do some house work, cook for her once in a while, and give her a time out from the children and you will be amazed and how grateful and thankful she is. A relationship and a household is a partnership and far to many men take advantage of their wives and expect her to take care of it all.

The third reason is because most men don't take the time to make her feel special. Most men just expect that she will be there and never leave and take advantage of it. They expect her to give them sex when they expect it without giving anything in return, and they think that flowers and jewelry will be enough to keep her madly in love. News flash guys, this isn't enough. You have to take the time to compliment her and make her feel beautiful. Take the time to make her feel not only wanted, but needed. Let her know through your actions that you are thinking of her and care about her. Don't expect anything, and certainly don't take her for granted.

Love at First Sight - Does it Really Happen????

I met a school friend after many years. But the girl, popularly known as Miss Rude of school days, appeared to be very vivacious and gladsome. When I asked the secret of that broad sunshine smile, the unexpected reply was, "I am in love". With my eyebrows raised, the first word I could utter was "WOW!!" Smiling again, she explained to me the way things happened. After learning that she had met the guy a day before at a friend's party and was now deeply in love with him, I suddenly broke into laughter. I know it might have been thought as strange and awkward on my part, but I could not control my feelings at the moment. They did not even talk to each other and had fallen in love just at the first sight...."How could one fall in love at first sight?" was the very first question that came to my mind.

Many of us often witness people, who confuse love with 'Infatuation' (just crush or attraction at first sight). But they don't realise that there is a very thin line difference between the two. I see no reason to fall in love without even knowing a person. Love is an eternal feeling, a phenomenon that takes place when one gets acquainted with the mind, heart and soul of the other. When the thoughts rising inside one can be read by another and the decision taken by one is understood, appreciated and respected by another. It is not about disputing over the kind of path to be followed, but is walking together on the same path, holding each other's hands.

Now the question is "can all these feelings originate by merely a glimpse or by just exchanging a few words?" The answer is "No" indeed. Love is a process that can take some days, months or even some years to pave its way into the hearts of those involved. It is true, though, a person can feel quite inclined or attracted towards another owing to some physical qualities. But that can be termed as infatuation, crush or sometimes something that could later be transformed into the so called Love. What a youngster today call as 'Love at first sight' might later translate into 'Fight at first sight', if the chosen person is not compatible enough to spend the entire life with. Though by putting in some efforts and a positive attitude, one can really convert this infatuation into "Love of the lifetime"....

The very fact to be kept in mind is that each person comes from a different background and has undergone an unlike upbringing. So familiarizing yourself with the family, social and personal background of the person can help you getting into his/her mind and heart. Besides, if you really like a person, speak your heart out in front of him/her. This would include everything significant in you life, ranging from your school life, hobbies to your 'past relationships' and future plans. Also try to find out the vision and attitude of the person towards 'Life' and 'Love'. Last but not the least, 'Give yourself time' before directly jumping onto the conclusion... Finally he/she will either emerge out to be the perfect one for you, or else there is someone, somewhere, still waiting for your love.

So the next time you check someone out, my tips would surely help you to convert this illusion, called the 'Love at first sight' into a Reality..

Expressing Your Love in a Long Distance Relationship

When you first enter a long distance relationship, the romance is live and kicking. Everything is so new. But what happens after months of being in that relationship, and the flame dies?

Long distance relationships (LDRs) require more effort than short distance relationships. I've come to find in my own experience and in reading the stories of other peoples LDRs, many find it hard to express their feelings across the miles. You can say "I love you" as many times as you want, but how do you really show it?

Those in short distance relationships have it easy. These couples can reaffirm their love for another with a simple hug or kiss. But what about those in LDRs?

We have it hard. What do we have? Words. We interact with our loved ones through phone calls, email, and instant messaging. Words. And not all of us can speak eloquently and capture our lovers' hearts. We do have it hard.

So we find creative and meaningful ways to share our love for one another. These include, but not limited to: homemade gifts, hand-made cards, poems, scrapbooks, letters, drawings, care packages, long distance "virtual" dates, personalized websites, there are lots of possibilities. The more creative, the better.

So when we do show our love, it is with meaning, not just a spoken "I love you." Sometimes it is with such meaning, that it can be greater than a kiss or a hug, those conveniences of short-distance daters.

There is a silver lining after all.

If your long distance partner has gone out of their way to express their love, and has done or said something so sweet your heart melted, please share!